Wondering if your cat loves you? Take our research-backed quiz. Learn the real signs (slow blink, bunting, purr) and get tips to deepen your bond.
What the quiz measures
The quiz maps your answers to well-known behaviors that show trust and comfort. It focuses on calm eye contact, relaxed posture, proximity, rubbing, and play. It does not measure health or diagnose behavioral disorders.
Real signs your cat feels close to you
- Slow blink. Cats sometimes close their eyes slowly when they feel safe with you. Research supports this signal of positive emotion. See the study.
- Bunting. Head or cheek rubs leave scent. It means you are part of their safe group.
- Upright tail with a soft tip. A tail held up while greeting is a friendly sign.
- Kneading. Many cats knead when they are relaxed and content.
- Choosing you over other options. In controlled tests, many cats prefer human interaction over food or toys. Read the findings.
- Sleeping near you. Resting close by shows trust. Touch is not required. Some affectionate cats keep a little distance and still feel bonded.
Not all cats show every sign. Personality and history matter. That is normal.
How to use your result
Your score reflects the behaviors you report today. It shows how often your cat uses friendly signals and how relaxed they seem around you. A low score does not mean your cat dislikes you. It may mean they are shy, stressed, or need more predictable routines.
Simple ways to build the bond
Most cats relax when their basic needs are met in a stable way. The core ideas are safe spaces, separate key resources, play that mimics hunting, and gentle, predictable contact. These align with veterinary guidance on healthy feline environments. Learn the pillars.
- Keep routines steady. Feed, play, and rest at regular times.
- Offer choice. Provide more than one resting spot and hiding place.
- Play short and often. Use a wand toy for a few minutes. End with a small treat.
- Let them lead touch. Hold out a finger at nose level. If your cat rubs you, pet briefly on the head or cheeks.
- Respect no. If the tail twitches fast or the ears turn back, pause and give space.
When to speak with a vet
Call your veterinarian if you notice sudden hiding, hissing that is new, skipping meals, litter box changes, or pain when touched. Behavior shifts can signal stress or illness.
Next steps after the quiz
If you want to understand your cat’s play style before training new routines, try the Cat Archetype Quiz. If you are curious about problem-solving and memory, the Cat Intelligence Quiz explores feline cognition in a simple way. If you also care for a dog, you can check bonding cues with the Does My Dog Love Me Quiz.